Although it is not something that we are born with, sadly many people like to gossip about others. The faults that we see in others are simply the reflection of our own shortcomings. Therefore, the best way to judge others is based on their positive contributions and good qualities, not on the things that we want them to be. Thus, if we see faults in others, we should be more compassionate and caring, because if we were in their shoes, gossiping would only make us feel hurt.

-- Zurmang Gharwang Rinpoche